I got PLAYED

Have you ever seen Princess Diaries 2?
There's a part in there where Mia comes into her room after spending the night with Nicholas, and her waking up with him is on Genovia natl TV. She crying when the queen asks her what happened, and she says "I got played." Well, that's me. Right now. Not with the tears, those happened last night.

So heres the story:
I went to a wedding. Yep - recipe for disaster. At weddings, there are single guys who, seeing the ceremony and the reception and knowing whats happening that night are suddenly on the quest to find either commitment or sex, fast. Well, I met one such guy: Rhys. Rhys is a scrawny, blonde haired blue eyed cutie who can swing dance with the best of us. I say us because I can too. I had met him a yr and a half ago but he doesnt remember because he went off to the army and was gone for all this time. He deploys in september. So this guy comes up to me and grabs my hands to dance and when he finds out that I can I can, of course he's pretty happy. So for the rest of the day, he flirts with me, blows the wedding bubbles at me, pokes me, makes sure I'm not leaving when I went out to my car to change (I was a bridesmaid, the only skinny single one of us), and etc. He invites me to dinner with their group, so I go, and the whole time he tries to play footsie with me, rubs his finger on my arm once, pokes my head when i spaced out, listens hard to everything I'm saying, etc. He follows me back to Kayla's car because I took her back to it and he had her brothers stuff. He would have stayed to talk to me after he gave it to her had we not exchanged a long hug. I'm literally playing as hard to get as I possibly can. Well, we go back to a friends apartment, and there are 2 very serious couples there. They all decide to smush on one couch so Rhys and can have the love seat to spread out since we're not a couple. Sarah pokes Andrew, Bandi pokes Aaron, and the next thing I know there's a tickle fight. And I knew, I just KNEW Rhys was going to tickle me. and he did. I was sprawling on the floor kicking him to get him off me. Then he picks the movie, strategically of course: August Rush. I'd never seen it. It's a dramatic chick flick that he had hoped would make me want to cuddle with him. Well, he starts scooting closer and closer to me and then he has his arm pressed against mine. About 30minutes later he says, my arms falling asleep. I said, well you put it there, not my fault. And he said well I could put it somewhere else, and he tried to put in around me but my head was in the way, so it was like, aww. And then I said fine, and leaned forward, and he was like, YES! So the rest of the movie is spent with him touching me as much as he dares. Im trying to not respond. I should have moved. At one point Bandi texted me so I would move, to I responded, THANK YOU! But then we got back into the same position. When the movie was over, he offered to walk me to my car, and Bandi looked at him and said, if you try ANYTHING, the 4 of us will be out there ASAP. So he didnt try anything. My car door handle was broken, so he opened my door ,and I just got in quickly. I didnt wait. So he said, ok Ill facebook you. He had hinted earlier that he would drive up here to see me because our friends were still up here till noon on memorial day. well he didnt. he just took his 5 hr drive home. has not texted or called since. stupid boy!!! he used me to be his cuddle buddy and then disappeared!!! At least I guarded my haart, but he still got my hopes up and then dashed them! He facebooked me saying I was right, we were friend on facebook. So should I respond to him?